End the Struggle and Dance with Life
How to Build Yourself Up When the World Gets You Down
by Susan Jeffers PhD.

The title really says it all. How often do we describe ourselves as
"struggling"? I first became aware of this book when a dear friend of
mine recommended it. I had just left a 5-year relationship and was searching for some understanding, some meaning to what had happened. I wanted to understand my part in the relationship and how it contributed to a relationship "gone bad".

What she had to say was just what I needed to hear. She reveals how we unconsciously live our lives from fear and thus contribute to our own oppression. The quotes sprinkled liberally throughout the book were very much to the point and thought provoking. I found this book had a profound impact on my understanding of who I am and who I wanted to become more of.

Her message is powerful one - when we let go of outmoded ideas and habits, life really becomes a dance and not a struggle. It puts us squarely in the driver's seat of our lives and encourages us to make the shifts that we need to make our lives joyous and fulfilling.

I highly recommend this book as an excellent tool for reclaiming a life of authenticity and liberation. This book represents one of the significant "building blocks" of my life.

Barbara McDowall


Seven Whispers
by Christina Baldwin

I first became aware of the work of Christina Baldwin earlier this year. Over the summer, I began to read her book, Calling the Circle. Circles have been coming up for me more and more frequently. Christina’s book has had a profound effect. I have learned so much about the healing qualities that the Circle has to offer to the world, especially at this time in our history. As I have learned more about this ancient form of group work, I have been able to apply that understanding to the work that we do at Authentic Lives.

And then someone mentioned Seven Whispers to me because as she said to me "it reminds me of you." Having a deep respect for Christina’s work and an innate curiosity, I decided to read it. The Seven Whispers are:

               Maintain peace of mind
               Move at the pace of guidance
               Practice certainty of purpose
               Surrender to surprise
               Ask for what you want and offer what you can
               Love the folks in front of you
               Return to the world

Similar to The Four Agreements, it gives the reader an in depth understanding of another way to be in the world that can provide much peace and harmony.

I would highly recommend this book to anyone who is seeking deeper insight and a conscious, practical way to be in the world.

Barbara McDowall



BIBLIOGRAPHY

Take the Step, The Bridge Will Be there by Grace Cirocco
The Four Agreements
by Don Miguel Ruiz
Mastery of Love
by Don Miguel Ruiz
The Language of Letting Go
by Melodie Beattie
Co dependency No More
by Melodie Beattie
Return to Love
by Marianne Williamson
A Woman's Worth
by Marianne Williamson
Change your Mind; Change your Life
by Dr. Jerry Jampolsky
Love is Letting Go of Fear
by Dr. Jerry Jampolsky
Simplify Your Life
by Elaine St. James
Inner Simplicity
by Elaine St. James
Conversations with God trilogy (Books 1,2,3)

   by Neale Donald Walsch

Friendship with God
by Neale Donald Walsch
Communion with God
by Neale Donald Walsch
Celestine Prophecy
by James Redfield
Creative Visualization
by Shakti Gawain
Building Your Field of Dreams
by Rev. Mary Manin Morrissey
Essential Spirituality
by Roger Walsh
From This High Place
by Ken Standley
End the Struggle and Dance with Life
by Susan Jeffers
Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway
by Susan Jeffers
7 Paths to God
by Joan Borysenko
Seat of the Soul
by Gary Zukav
Anything
by Dr. Wayne Dyer (e.g. Your Sacred Self)
Path to Love
by Deepak Chopra
Unconditional Life
by Deepak Chopra
Choice Theory: A New Psychology of Personal Freedom
   
by William Glasser
Why People Don't Heal
by Caroline Myss
Anatomy of the Spirit
by Caroline Myss
Eastern Body, Western Mind
by Anodea Judith
Wheels of Life
by Anodea Judith
Heal Your Body
by Louise Hay
Empowering the Tribe: A Positive Guide to Gay and
   Lesbian Self-Esteem
by Richard L. Pimenthal-Habib
The Children Are Free: Reexamining Biblical Evidence on
   Same Sex Relationships

   by Rev. Jeff Miner & John Tyler Connoley

Coming Out Spirituality
by Christian de la Huerta
Gay Spirit Warrior: An Empowerment Workbook for Men
   Who Love Men
by John R. Stowe
Coming Out Within: Stages of Spiritual Awakening for
    Lesbians and Gay Men
by Craig O'Neil & Kathleen Ritter
Creation Spirituality
by Matthew Fox
Wherever You Go, There You Are
by Jon Kabat Zin
The New American Spirituality
by Elizabeth Lesser
Writing Your Authentic Self
by Lois Guarino
A Course in Miracles - The Most Commonly Asked
   Questions About 'A Course in Miracles'

   by Gloria Wapnick and Kenneth Wapnick

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